Showing posts with label IVF. Show all posts
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Thursday, September 5, 2013

I Walked Away from One Man’s Promise of Prosperity – And Never Been Happier!

Just before I wrote this I was browsing through the various viands at my favorite turo-turo near the Pro-Life office in Legarda. Hard to imagine that a few days ago I was casually dining at a posh Spanish restaurant, taking my pick among the different tapas, munching on croquetas and pollo and several other food items whose names I cannot remember. I was smug that I and my team of web developers, graphic designers, and writers will be working for a very rich man, and that we will soon be paid handsomely. He paid for our lunch by the way.

Our would- be employer told us his plans for the team over lunch on that fateful Saturday afternoon. I, in particular, was given a very specific job: to travel to his new manufacturing plant somewhere in Asia, spend a week or two taking pictures of the new plant, its people, and the scenery, then write a book about it. (I won't tell you where, but I Googled the place and found these pics: 


Never mind if I knew next to nothing about SLR photography, he was going to provide me with the camera, process my passport, and give me the money to buy the tickets going there plus some extra cash.


The pay will be good (which, out of modesty, I won’t post here – suffice to say that it was VERY sufficient ) but the perks will be awesome. We will have our own office, apart from all his other employees, but we can work from home if he wasn’t in the country, just as long as we were able to deliver. On top of that, he was also planning to rent out a place for us near the office, so we could be nearby if he’s around. We will be free to work almost whenever and where ever we want, and will be paid lots of money. Ah. Life is good! So we reported for work first thing Monday morning. 

There was, however, one catch.

Our employer was into the manufacturing business, and one of his products was the IVF, or In Vitro Fertilization, machine. The Catholic Church has always maintained that IVF, a process that produces what many people know as “test tube babies” , is immoral. After a few days of working for him, the team decided that enough was enough. (for those who need a little background on why the Catholic Church opposes IVF, you may want to read this, this, and/or this.) 


 The team thought we had made our objection to IVF clear, and also thought that we could make some sort of compromise: we will do our utmost to work for the boss on everything except things related to his IVF machines. Yesterday, however, he secretly asked two of my teammates to go abroad ASAP and help out in promoting his IVF products. What the boss didn’t know was that the team made a pact: we remain faithful to the teachings of the Catholic Church no matter what. We will have to refuse to work for a man who will lead us to sin. We shouldn't have made any compromise to begin with. The Gospel of Mark (8:36) made it crystal-clear for us: For what shall it profit a man, if he gain the whole world, and suffer the loss of his soul?

I am a Catholic. Son of Mama Mary. Son of Don Bosco. With all my heart I turned my back on the empty promises of fortune and walk away with my head held high. 

Our choice was clear, but was in no way easy. I for one have been looking for financial stability all my life, and the work offered gave both artistic freedom and the answer to my financial woes. The job could have given me everything that I didn't have so far – lots of money, good clothes, gadgets, perhaps even a car or two and my own condo unit in a few years’ time, and still have some money left in the savings account to give my future wife the wedding she always wanted. All proved to be elusive dreams once more.